Cougar dating younger men
When he asks you about your history, don’t be afraid to share.
As women over 50, most of us are not willing to head over to the local Steak and Shake for a date.
One of your cub’s favorite things about you is you’ve got “vintage” style. He won’t like if you imply he doesn’t know what he’s doing.
He wants to know what’s interesting and popular in your age group. Don’t try to keep up with a young buck by suddenly wanting to go out all throughout the week and drink hard after work. If there are certain things you need to happen in bed, present them in a way so it’s fun for both of you, and not just all in service of your big O.
Somehow, they've created this great fantasy of who they think we are, and that is what they want to experience. He could have had the pick of the litter his own age and even younger, yet he was asking me, a 50 year old woman, on a date? Instead, I played the game and flirted with him, while having a charming afternoon being courted by a young handsome man. As much chemistry as we had, I actually found it hard to relate to a lot of what he was saying, but that afternoon was fun and he sure did make me feel good!
I'll be the first to admit it feels fantastic when a younger man asks you out. As great as it is for the ego, a younger man is in a totally different stage of his life.He's probably surrounded by young women with their smooth complexions and youthful glow on a daily basis. He might be just getting his career going or have minor children at home from a previous marriage. All of those shared experiences Baby Boomers have in our collective memories happened when he was too young to remember -- or wasn't even born yet!