Dating an older man how old is too old
I signed up for ballroom dancing classes last year.The class was canceled, as there weren't enough students to make it worth the instructor's time to drive in from 100 miles away.It pisses me off to no end when I sign up with my husband, then I spend half of every class standing and watching because of the partner-switching.
There is also the fact that I hold no illusions, I'm not filthy rich, and I don't have the looks of George Clooney. I know I'm in a very small minority, but Hillary looks better and better every year.I find her very sexy, but then I am attracted to powerful confident women.When I see older photos and clips of her during the eary Clinton presidency, then I don't find her attractive at all. I've dated women 10 years younger (when I was 35) and 10 years older (when I was 40). Personality, positivism, humor, attitude, and enthusiasm matter much more after that first 2 minutes.Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder and I'm more interested in personality than age. Too bad - physics don't allow exceptions for male preference. The class was canceled, as there weren't enough students to make it worth the instructor's time to drive in from 100 miles away.
I can't speak for the men, but I find men close to my own age (44) to be perfectly attractive. My first instinct is that guys your own age who only want hot young things aren't the guys you want to be dating anyway. [QUOTE=Cat Whisperer;14129723]I can't speak for the men, but I find men close to my own age (44) to be perfectly attractive. (I live in a very remote town.) At the introductory, won't-you-sign-up class, every single male who attended was with his wife/girlfriend, and there were several of us unattached women. That's a specific case from a specific person (in this case, me).A friend in MA says women outnumber men at her ballroom dance class, too. I'm sure there are others my age that wouldn't admire an older woman's looks, no matter how gorgeous she was. The sexual revolution was at it's peak when they entered it as eager kids, but they still had the previous hang-ups instilled in them as children to make overcoming them interesting.