Being friends after casually dating
Having incorrect people tell you not to text him first after you just hung out. Which kinda sucks for the lazy daters among us, not to mention that the veg-out brand of dating is way less pressure. Casual date-sleeping doesn't even count as real sleeping. Perpetually meeting up with strangers to see if there's potential to love each other? RELATED: 11 Signs You're Casually Dating the Right Guy The 33 Best Things About Being Single 20 Guys to Avoid in Your 20s Follow Anna on Twitter. And if you text him first, you wind up staring at your phone willing him to text you back. Or is it simply lying in a gridlocked position with someone whose middle name you don't know? This summer we can have a cookout— I mean I can have a cookout, whether you're there or not is whatever, I'm not looking for a commitment, I'm ~*~*s OOOO~*~ not one of 10. Staying in is too intimate for you guys — there always has to be some kind of plan, even if it's just going to a bar or a restaurant. Or wear the cute, less-comfortable pajamas that you reserve for these occasions. You inevitably lose sleep because you're not used to sharing a bed with this person. Fielding the potential for utter and complete awkwardness on a regular basis.“Saying, ‘I'm just being single right now,’ or ‘I’m focusing on work,’ or the like is the worst, because that person is implying that a good relationship would hinder their life!It’s such a bummer to find out that someone who has expressed interest is not available because she needs to ‘focus on herself’ for a bit.”5. Not knowing whether you're going to spend the night or not, so being unsure of how to pack or not pack. More like five naps taken between the hours of 1, 4, and 7 a.m. You're pretty much gonna have sex even if you're both tired.
No matter how exhausted or not in the mood you both are, you have a duty as post-date sleepover partners — nay, as AMERICANS — to do it. But you might not have sex frequently enough to learn each others' styles and needs. You don't really feel like you can ask the person what they want in the long run.
He doesn’t want to disrupt the friend and group dynamic.