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But if you have a family history of addiction, you could still be considered ‘at risk.’ “Make sure you have sexual experiences that are porn-free, and develop a range of strategies for coping with stress and boredom,” says Hall.
“And if you feel your porn usage is creeping up, cut back for a while so your dopamine levels can re-calibrate.” Dopamine is the pleasure chemical that's released when people view porn (or have sex, eat food, etc.), but the more you release it, the more you need to get the same buzz, says Hall.
There is also the website Guard Your Eyes which has helped a number of people. -- Emuna Related Article: X-Rated Dear Emuna, My wife and I have been together intimately only a few times in the last couple of years. Her list is endless; she is always correcting me in some way. We have been married 33 years have two grown children and five grandkids. I think your best bet is to try to talk to her – in a loving way, when you’re not feeling frustrated or angry or hurt.
She can be pretty cruel with her words and then act like nothing happened. See if you can access those feelings of caring you have for her and communicate out of that place of depth and emotion.
For one, porn can keep you from getting an erection during sex.
And on a grander scale, it can really start to affect your relationship, career, and quality of life.
He must accept responsibility for his actions and not shift any blame onto his spouse.
“I love you.” “I value our relationship.” “Our family is important to me.” And “It hurts me when you speak to me like that.” “I think it’s painful for the children when you criticize them.” “I’m doing my best to change; please help me with positive comments instead of negative ones.” I hope this will help. But I believe your wife doesn’t realize the depth of your frustration or the potential horrific consequences.
You need to give her that information and a chance to change and make amends. -- Emuna Please check out Emuna’s new book A Diamond for Your Daughter – A Parent’s Guide to Navigating Shidduchim Effectively, available through Judaica Press Emuna Braverman has a law degree from the University of Toronto and a Masters in in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University.
I might have looked passed it had it been a one-time distraction, but I felt insecure and I looked at the history on his phone. He began with denial, but after I told him of my solid proof he could no longer deny it.
He had been visiting this site for quite some time and these images must now be imbedded in his head. He became embarrassed, upset and angry, telling me that I am too sensitive.
That's why there are so many fences and such limited contact.