Sex chat with muslim girl
Well, this is a very good thing ,no doubt about it. I mean if you keep men and women apart how will you know what type of guy you like if you never talk to any, and vice versa.
Assalam-o-Alaikum Islam does not stop you from choosing your life partner or finding a "guy of your liking" as you put it.
You are just "Best Friends" and it is not impossible that the relationship can change any time and when it changes things are never in our control.
We see it happen many times in our families and circle of friends.
Yuk it makes me sick just thinkin about that" Yes - the trouble begins when you DO find the right person, but are not so willing to marry at that time...
وَمَن لَّمْ يَسْتَطِعْ مِنكُمْ طَوْلًا أَن يَنكِحَ الْمُحْصَنَاتِ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ فَمِن مَّا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُم مِّن فَتَيَاتِكُمُ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ ۚ وَاللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ بِإِيمَانِكُم ۚ بَعْضُكُم مِّن بَعْضٍ ۚ فَانكِحُوهُنَّ بِإِذْنِ أَهْلِهِنَّ وَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ مُحْصَنَاتٍ غَيْرَ مُسَافِحَاتٍ وَلَا مُتَّخِذَاتِ أَخْدَانٍ ۚ فَإِذَا أُحْصِنَّ فَإِنْ أَتَيْنَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ فَعَلَيْهِنَّ نِصْفُ مَا عَلَى الْمُحْصَنَاتِ مِنَ الْعَذَابِ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ لِمَنْ خَشِيَ الْعَنَتَ مِنكُمْ ۚ وَأَن تَصْبِرُوا خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ And whoever among you cannot [find] the means to marry free, believing women, then [he may marry] from those whom your right hands possess of believing slave girls. [They should be] chaste, neither [of] those who commit unlawful intercourse randomly nor those who take [secret] lovers.
In my view, Islam promotes segregation of sexes as a preventive measure against all kinds of immoral relationships. Attraction between male and female is the most potent weapon of Satan.
My question is whether there can exist a solid, moral frinedship between a muslim man and a muslim woman. Keep 1 thing in mind that when a lady & a man r intouch with each other or close to each other ,they r not alone.
It is the very nature of men and woman that if they come closer in relationship like sharing ideas and opinions on different topics and if such a friendly relationship continues, they'll be attracted to each other sooner or later. One must be always on his guard against the wiles and temptations of Satan.
He need the love of mother and care of father for a long time from his birth. Thus the institution of family is one of the basic needs for the survival of human race.