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If something can be changed more to your liking through physical effort, diet, or other reasonable venue, then change it as you feel you can.
However, loving yourself is not a sin, and accepting yourself does not make you vain.
Physical perception issues are common for women of all ages.
If the way you feel about your body prevents you from doing things you love to do then you have two basic avenues to consider.
Regardless of age, orientation, sexual function or dysfunction, women who were sexually abused as children and have never had appropriate therapies to resolve the abuse should find some form of workable therapy.