Advice dating 2 guys
We want to bail the morning after a one-night stand. I'm foul when I'm hung over, so I am sure others are too. Do everything you can to get home and fester in your own bed. Give each other a hug, wish each other well, don't say anything about calling, and don't believe him when he mutters that he will call you. There is no reason women wouldn't understand or know sports like guys do if they were as obsessed. That "up against the wall" variation is tougher than it sounds.
Sometimes We Like Being Told What to Do One of the reasons we won't commit is because we don't want to be told what to do.
I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here.
Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of us longer. I know if a girl seems unsure of herself in bed, it gets distracting and starts to feel awkward.
Commitment means I've found my soul mate, that I am completely secure with myself, and that there should be no going back.
I don't know about you, but all of that is pretty heavy.
This may explain why we are so clueless at what we are doing in bed, but we act like we know. Some people turn into a completely different person when they are drunk.