Why courtship is better than dating
To meet possible compatible love partners, we started a new hobby, networked in our social circles, had friends set us up on blind dates, and generally spent some time looking for someone just as amazing/screwed up as we are.But with the advent of technology, "dating" doesn't exist anymore.But when it comes to love, all technology does is leave a wake of emotional destruction, disconnection, and false positives.highlights how Tinder has signaled a “dating apocalypse” because it doesn’t promote actual “dating” — it promotes hookups based on physical appearance.In today’s technology-centric world — where everyone’s phone seems surgically attached to their hand — dating websites and apps are how modern singles find other singles.Normally, this would be a great thing, as technology makes things better. I don’t know how to create the feeling of home that lives in my heart. Or even myself — I’m still figuring out who that is.It seems like everyone's looking for love online ... A few short years ago, we had to put some actual effort into dating and finding love. We connected with friends and headed out on the town/to the bar/to the game.
It’s taken me a long time to even admit this to myself much less to you, so please know that everything I’ve written here is true.1. The first video shows you why “Comparison is the enemy of contentment“, next you’ll learn “How to make the most attractive men fall for you“, and finally “What you can do to find love“.
It’s astonishingly self-aware, and is the kind of letter I wish I received more, instead of the one blaming men for all the ills of the world.