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'I know people will think I'm old-fashioned, but I think it's astounding that you can meet a man in a club, have a few drinks and then he thinks that you will jump in a cab, go back to his flat and have sex with him. 'I think if more women felt like me and restricted their behaviour, they would be much happier in the long run.

Women are different from men - to me, sex means emotional involvement, that is the way we are programmed.'Communications executive Lisa Ventham, 33, from South London has just come out of a seven-year relationship and has been shocked to find how much women's attitudes towards sex have changed in that time.

I wanted to have more self-respect,' says Aisling, who was always meticulous about practising safe sex.'I actually think that sleeping with lots of Mr Wrongs puts up a barrier to finding Mr Right.

One night stands left me feeling utterly deflated and worthless and when I found myself single again in June last year, I decided to wait for Mr Right before I had sex again.' According to new research published last week by Anne Campbell, Professor of Psychology at Durham University, the answer appears to be a surprising no.

Some have worked out well, others have been a disaster, but overall I think they are cool. ' she says.'My generation of smart, university-educated women believe that we can treat sex just the same as men do - purely casually. According to recent polls, 53 per cent of Britons indulge in one-night stands and in one survey 75 per cent of people said it was acceptable to sleep with a partner on the first date.

Photo: Instagram If you haven't heard of Tinder, then congratulations: You are probably in a loving, monogamous relationship. And the best part about Tinder is you can people-watch without even putting a bra on. For every guy with a nice smile holding a shelter puppy is a dude in a fedora popping bottles at the local T. The "Only Here For Sex" Dude will make things pretttttty clear in his bio, usually by telling you what he's only there for.

I've crunched the numbers (numbers = smoked almonds), and come up with this informative Tinder guide for you ladies wading into the digital dating poo.

There has been a wholesale rejection of double standards and the message to young women has been, 'if they do it, why shouldn't we?

' And I'm sure alcohol plays some part in it all, adding a dynamic of its own.

'In evolutionary biological terms, it is in a man's interests to impregnate as many females as possible to spread his DNA as far and as wide as possible, but he would be crazy to hook up long-term with a promiscuous partner just like him.

Therefore in a 'pair-bonded' society, a woman who shuns casual sex and appears the faithful type increases her attractiveness, or 'mate value', as a long-term partner and potential mother to a man's children.

But after using the app for so long, I've also noticed certain patterns in the way men present themselves via their Tinder profiles.